Saint Luke Ev. Lutheran Church of Watertown
January 29 + February 1, 2004 Epiphany 4
1 Corinthians 13:8f
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
People
of God—rescued from the flaming lake of fire in hell by the innocent blood of
the very Lamb of God: There was a lady in Pennsylvania who had a bunch of
drinks. It doesn’t matter if they were beers—one little tapper glass after
another—all golden with a little white foam around the top and a bowl of
pretzels. Or if it was a bunch of martinis in those special glasses—with an
olive on a fancy tooth pick. It doesn’t matter if it was some cheap wine—thick
and syrupy and full of alcohol—drunk from a dirty oily paper bag. It doesn’t matter
if the wine was from France—from just the right year—wine that was very fruity
and finished well. This lady drank and drank and drank—until the amount of
alcohol in her blood stream made her thinking fuzzy—her reaction time
reduced—her vision diminished. She was in a crash. She caused an accident. An
innocent man in another car is now dead and buried. She was convicted—found
guilty and legally to blame. Her punishment? Only three months in jail—90 days.
The other part of her penalty more personal. From now on—she is under court
order—to carry in her wallet a picture of the man she killed—in his casket—in
her wallet. Every time she opens her purse—every time she looks at her
purse—every time she hears ice cubes—splink, splink—into a glass—every time she
gets behind the wheel of her car—she will see in her mind—that man in his
casket. I could see how—over time—that could drive you nuts! Don’t you think?
Guilt like that could eat away at you until you can’t stand it! The fact
is—every single one of us as done things that are horribly wrong. We are
guilty—responsible—to blame in the sight of our Heavenly Father. We are
forgiven for Jesus’ sake. We are forgiven because the innocent Lord Jesus
suffered the penalty our sins deserve. We are forgiven for Jesus’ sake. We are
made strong for Jesus’ sake—to live lives of love. Today God’s Word encourages
us:
Jesus’
Love Never Fails!
1. Love
is not hurtful
2. Love
always builds up
Today is the 3rd of what will be with Jesus’ permission 7 Sundays when the epistle reading is from Paul’s letters to the believers in the Greek city of Corinth. When you think of Corinth think of a big city—a place like New York or Chicago or LA. Think of a city where there is commerce and trade—buying and selling—all the things that money can buy. Think of a city where there is culture—stage plays like Broadway—comedies and tragedies—stories that are the basis for the plays and movies and TV we watch today. There was architecture like the Parthenon in Athens—architecture so wondrous that 2,000 years later—people are fascinated by the crumbled ruins! There were statues that today are in the Louvre! There were sweet wines and fine banquets and feasts. There were the sins that are found in a place of great earthly wealth—sinful selfindulgence and the gross and wicked perversions that come from hearts and lives lived apart from the one true God! There was violence—the rebellious hearts filled with Satan—that literally and physically fought against the spread of the Gospel and the rescue of immortal souls! The Corinthian congregation was at the same time—blessed with every spiritual blessing in Christ—and at the same time torn apart by selfishness, pride and squabbling. Where our Heavenly Father plants wheat—the devil plants weeds—thorns, thistles and stickerbushes! There were priceless blessings and painful troubles! That’s often times how it is in the Christian Church today. Paul wrote words of instruction and words of encouragement to God’s people.
God’s Word says, “Love is
patient…” The Greek word for patience here is more than just waiting in
line at Pick N Save while some stock boy goes running for a new bag of Green
Giant sweet corn nibblets because a bag got stuck in the conveyer belt and now
there’s little frosty kernels of corn everywhere. It’s more than being patient
with people driving across Watertown never using their turn signals. This is
the kind of patience that doesn’t get angry and get even when somebody really
hurts you! Love is patient when somebody thoughtlessly, rudely plows
right into you and it’s almost instinctive to shove them back and say, “Hey!
Why don’t you watch where you’re going?” It’s when somebody rolls their grocery
cart over your foot or up your heel and almost rips off your ankle—and they
yell at you—why don’t you watch where you’re going? Love is patient when
somebody hurts somebody you love—and you would like to really hurt them back.
Hurt them good—and say—So—how do you like it? Love is patient
when the hurt is deep inside. Love is patient for Jesus’ sake. The one
who patiently endured when soldiers blindfolded him and punched him and slapped
him and said, “You who claim to be the Son of God—tell us—who hit you?” Love
is patient for the sake of the one who was spit on—who had his beard—his
whiskers pulled out—and did not retaliate—did not get even!
“Love is patient, love is kind.” They did one of those surveys the other day. They asked people if you could change your spouse’s appearance—would you? Practically everybody said—change their appearance? Sure! Change how they look? No kidding! Practically everybody said—I’d change their hair—maybe make it thicker—give them more hair—maybe change the color, the texture, the style. Practically everybody said—I’d change their skin—make all those wrinkles go away. Practically everybody said—I’d change their nose—maybe make it smaller—not so big—not so pointy! People who think that way and talk that way—themselves need to change. They need to change on the inside! Only Jesus can work that change I need on the inside. The change that makes us kind—thoughtful, considerate, making us slow to speak, slow to get angry—quick to listen—determined to change!
Love is not rude. There is a
coarsening in our country. There is a coarsening crudeness in our country.
There is debate going on right now in the highest levels of government—whether
a person can say something incredibly obscene. But if that obscenity is used as
an adverb instead of a noun or a verb—then it’s ok? There is a coarsening in
our country—when you can watch the network news and actually see people being
killed! Oh, sometimes they kind of warn you saying what follows is somewhat
intense or the following is intended for mature audiences—viewer discretion is
advised. The smallest children today are aware of violence and obscenity that once
upon a time—people weren’t confronted with—until high school or college—or if
you went off to war. This rudeness—this coarseness—this callousness that comes
from evil so common, ordinary, every day has its ultimate harm in abortion—and
in the putting to death of people who are elderly and unable to protect
themselves. If truth and what is right and good is lost—then human lives and
immortal souls are not valued either! Then people convicted of murder in civil
court are accessed fines—and continue to play golf. People accused of molesting
children dance on the tops of vans while people cheer and dance and sing along.
People running for
President say they will defend the right to abort a baby right up to the moment
they are born—and Federal Judges in our country sign papers that say it is
still ok to put to death a baby that is 80% born! Love—like Jesus’ forgiving
love is not rude—not coarse and crude and hurtful and wrong!
Love is not easily angered, it keeps no record of
wrongs. I
can remember when I was in about 3rd grade—when we lived in an old
farm house. We rented the downstairs and our neighbor rented the upstairs. I
remember one day when it was really snowing—and the temperature was just right
for making snow balls. I remember making snow balls and throwing them at our
neighbor—when he was carrying groceries. I remember shooting snow balls at
him—because they were so easy to make. And I remember not realizing how
terrible it must have been to be the person getting hit with these snowballs.
Our neighbor said—probably yelled—“I’m gonna get you!” And not understanding he
wasn’t kidding—I just waited outside—while he put his groceries in his
house—and came back outside. I remember him picking me up and throwing me down
into the snow. I remember his knee in the middle of my back. I remember him
smashing fists full of snow into my face till I had trouble breathing. I
remember his snarling—how do you like it? I thought to my self—not very much!
That was a grown up kind of out of control. That was a long time ago. Love—real
forgiving love like Jesus’ forgiving love—forgives and forgets that hurt. It
keeps no record of wrongs. Like lots of things Jesus asks us to do—it’s
surely easier said than done. But it’s not impossible! Jesus never asks us to
do anything—without at the same time equipping us to do it! I’ve visited lots
of people who have been in terrible accidents. More often than not they will
say—I don’t remember what happened. I just remember waking up in the
hospital—wondering how I got there! And I always tell them it’s ok not to
remember. To forget the sins that people do to hurt us—is something we need to
work at—all the time! Erase them from your memory. Delete them. Don’t think
about them any more. Forgive one another from the heart. Forgive the way Jesus
has forgiven us. Forgive those sins—and remember them no more!
Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes,
always perseveres. Again God’s Word is talking about attitude! It is talking about an
attitude that does not give up—does not quit! This world is full of quitters!
People who took piano lessons for a little while and quit. They never practice.
What little they knew—they forgot. People who studied languages when they were
in college and the seminary. They don’t do much translation any more. Again
what they knew—they have pretty much forgotten. Then there was a young man on
the news the other day—who has a horrible muscular disease—who is on the cross
country team. He falls down—three and four times every race—and can barely
catch himself. He takes about four times as long as anyone else. But he runs as
hard as he can. He always perseveres. It is that kind of attitude—built on
Jesus’ never failing forgiving love that makes our hearts strong!
Love never fails! They have launched an investigation in
Denmark—concerning people who were supposed to go to prison. But instead a
substitute—someone else—somebody else was paid—to go to prison for them! Can
you imagine that? Would you sell your freedom—to be locked in a cage—among
robbers and rapists—murderers and thieves—liars, cheats, perverts and molesters
of the most horrible kind—people without conscience? How much would you have to
be paid—to go to prison for something you didn’t do? Would you serve
months—years—a life sentence? Would you sit on death row—be executed—put to
death for something you didn’t do? Would you do that for someone you loved more
than life itself? Would you suffer to save someone who hated you? Just imagine
how great Jesus’ love must be for me and for you—that he would live a life
without sin—then die on the cross to wash away all my sins and mistake. The
innocent is condemned and the guilty are forgiven because Jesus’ forgiving love
never fails!
Love never fails! Jesus’ forgiving love never fails! Trail
is a magazine for hikers. Not people who walk on the sidewalks and
driveways and grassy paths around Watertown. Trail is a magazine
for people who carry backpacks and tents and food and walk through the Outback
of Australia—who walk the Inca Trail through the foothills of Peru. Trail
is the magazine you read if you are going to hike through the mountains
and rocky paths through Scotland. The other day it had a map—the directions you
are to follow if you are in the mountains of Scotland—and there is a terrible
storm—and you can’t see where you are going. The trail—the path that is
outlined there has one fatal flaw. It directs you off a cliff! How horrible is
that? God’s Word shows us Jesus. Jesus is the Way, the Truth and the Life.
God’s Word is not a lesson in manners—that it’s nice to be nice to the nice.
God’s Word points us to Jesus the Son of God. God is love! Jesus is our
Redeemer—our Rescuer—our forgiveness. It is only out of thankfulness to our
Savior and Lord that we will love one another until we are safe at home in
Heaven. Amen!